FAQ

I wear diapers, is that okay?

Yes! We fully expect for our littles and adult babies to come in diapers (they're the cutest!). In fact, all play experiences have diaper changes included. It's even okay to come with a wet diaper. We do change diapers with solid waste as well; however, we do request an additional $50 solid waste disposal donation per change. We just ask that the rest of you be clean. Good personal hygiene is important for everyone's comfort. :)

What does the diaper change entail? Is it mandatory?

While diaper changes are included, it definitely is not mandatory. Please let us know your preference on your booking form. Each diaper change involves cleaning the soiled area*, administration of diaper rash cream (if needed), powder, and a new fresh diaper. There will be no inappropriate touching or touching with the intent to pleasure sexually. *Wet diaper changes are included in the packages; however, we request an additional $50 solid waste disposal donation per change that include solids.

What is the difference between a "little" and an "adult baby?"

Here are a resources that explain these dynamics a lot better than we ever could:

• reddit ABDL FAQ Section
• The Different Types of Littles for Caregiver/little Dynamics
• I’m A Queer Little: 10 Things You Should Know

Is it okay to play as a different gender?

Absolutely! That's one of the things you can let us know on the booking form. We're open to all sexes, gender, non-gender, whatever types. We're all about love and acceptance. :)

I'm gay, will that make a difference in our play?

Absolutely not. Little Baby Boo Nursery is all about love and not about sexuality. Everyone, regardless of sexual proclivities, needs and deserves to be loved, hugged, and cared for. Little Baby Boo Nursery is LGBTQ+ owned, managed, and operated. We support and love all people.

Would you be willing to trade or barter for service?

No, we do not accept trades or barters for service.

Will my charge card bill say "Little Baby Boo Nursery?"

No. Your donations will be billed under a different, non-descript company name. We'll let you know what that is in person. We don't want to list it here for privacy reasons.

What forms of payment do you accept?

Cash, venmo transfer, cash cards, credit cards (via PayPal). To pay via credit card, use the DONATE/PAY HERE button on this site. To use cash, venmo, or cash cards, please contact us.

What is "Pay to Play?" Can't you just be my Mommy?

"Pay to play" is often a derogatory term used to describe professionals who accept donations, tributes, or payments for their services. It's unfortunate that there's such a stigma attached to being a "professional" service provider. It is incredibly important that you know that, while we do this to earn a living, it doesn't mean that we see our session as merely transactional. That couldn't be further from the truth! We form attachments with every AB/DL and little we meet. The Mommies work hard to ensure that you have an amazing experience. It is HARD WORK, but we love it. We're here for you 100%!! While we wish we could be a Mommy for all of the adult babies and littles out there in this great big world, we simply cannot. Accepting payment enables us to be here for you and the community long-term. Hopefully, having a nursery so open to the public will help to bring forth this lifestyle in a positive light and more Mommies will come out to play!!

I'm worried about sexuality & discipline. Can you tell me more about it?

The littlespace is a SAFE space and free of sexual inference or innuendo. Unless otherwise requested (and confirmed beforehand), only mild forms of discipline will be used. We believe in positive, supportive reinforcement. Any concerns you have can be addressed in your booking form or by contacting us.

Can I request something a little more... "intimate"?

It really depends on what it is. We are not prostitutes nor are we interested in accepting money in exchange for anything sexual. We want to make this very clear: there will be no touching of the genitals, buttocks, or female breasts with the specific intent to arouse or gratify someone sexually. Our aim is to help people express a vulnerable side of themselves, or possibly help them heal from a traumatic event. It is not for sexual arousal or release.

What happens if I get “excited?"

Listen, we know that sometimes your body’s physical reaction may not necessarily mean that you’re trying to be sexual. We get that. A lot of times, during diaper changes, our adult babies will have erections. That happens with clients of all sexual orientation, so we know that most times it has nothing to do with being inappropriate. We also know that for other folks, diaper changes and other physical activities can simply evoke a mechanical response. We understand it and we don’t make a big deal out of it. As long as you understand that we will not do anything to purposefully cause an erection, “take care” of it, or engage in any form of sexual gratification at all. Please respect our policy.

I've always wanted to try this, but I'm afraid. Can I talk to someone about it?

We absolutely welcome first timers and will be as gentle as a kitten with you. The Nursery is a SAFE SPACE, where people can be free to be themselves. We Mommies have the utmost compassion and respect for all people. We always come from a place of love and are willing to talk through any emotions that come up during one of our sessions. We welcome littles, adult babies, and diaper lovers of all shapes, sizes, ages, genders, religions, ethnicities, whatever! We know that sometimes littles' outside packages aren't reflective of their true selves. That's why we have the booking form. We want to make sure we're all on the same page. If you have any concerns, please feel free to contact us so we can discuss ahead of time.

Why do you do this?

We recognize that the AB/DL/little lifestyles are often misunderstood and that there is a need for loving and compassionate caregivers who aren't afraid to get their hands dirty. Please see the About Us section for more information. We love to love and hope that we can not just bring happiness to your life, but to also raise awareness about our culture.

Do you have plans to travel?

Yes! We're always traveling. Make sure to keep an eye on our Blog and subscribe to our Instagram account! If you're interested in being contacted once we secure dates for any location, please let us know.

Where is the Nursery?

We are located in the High Desert of Los Angeles County, in Palmdale, CA. Check out the map for directions from your home. To ensure the privacy of the Nursery homeowners and ensure discretion, the exact address of the Nursery will be given only after you've scheduled your playdate.

Are you discreet?

We will be collecting private information from you throughout the process and we take that responsibility very seriously. Your privacy and safety are our top concerns. Billing is under a different name as well, for privacy. Just as you might fear being judged, so do we. We also believe that discretion is a two-way street and fully expect that all parties respect and honor that belief.

Is it okay if I'm law enforcement or military?

Of course! We gladly welcome our "boys in blue" and either former or active-duty military! In fact, we offer a 10% discount as an expression of gratitude.

Do you accept donations of used adult baby gear?

YEEEEEEES!!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! We will gladly accept gently used onesies or clothing of any size. We know that every once in a while, people feel that they need to purge their stash. Let us be here for you!!! It goes towards supporting our community!!

What is the booking process like?

Hi little love! What should you expect during a Little Baby Boo Nursery play date? Expect to be loved and doted on! We are here to provide you with a relaxing space where you can be your true self. No judgement, no harsh words, just love and acceptance. :) The booking process is this:

1. Once you've decided that you'd like to visit the Little Baby Boo Nursery, contact us, introduce yourself, and tell us a little about your ideal play date.
2. You'll be asked to fill out the Little Baby Boo Nursery booking form (which will help us learn even more about you and when you'd like to schedule).
3. Initiate your deposit via the DONATE/PAY HERE button to reserve your spot. Until your deposit is made, we cannot guarantee a date or time.
4. Once we receive your deposit, we will send a confirmation email with a welcome and introductions to your Caregiver(s). Please feel free to ask any and all questions. We are here for you and don't mind answering anything.
5. Immediately before your session, we'll check your picture ID for age, go over the rules, review your completed form, and confirm final payment.
6. During our playdate we'll have THE BEST TIME EVER! Yaaay!

Can I bring a friend?

You are more than welcome to bring an additional ABDL participant. Keep in mind that our prices are per person. We also host Littles' Play Parties at least every other month!!! Those are group parties at extremely affordable rates. You can come, meet other littles, eat, dance, sing, and craft!!

Is it okay if I bring something to drink or smoke to relax?

All play experiences will be drug and alcohol free. It's important that our play remain consensual and that all parties are sober throughout our fun. Unfortunately, if we feel that you are inebriated when you arrive, we will end the session immediately, your deposit will be forfeit, and you will be banned from playing with us in the future. Thank you for your cooperation.

How long of a session should I book?

Of course, that depends on what you'd like to experience. We typically recommend scheduling a playdate session for at least 2 hours. That amount of time gives us all a chance to really get into the headspace of the dynamic while also giving us ample time to bring you out of littlespace.

What happens during a session?

Each session is tailored to the little with whom we’re playing. We don’t really do “scenes,” nor do we plan too many activities ahead of time before meeting you. We want to make sure our play is fun for both of us, so in addition to basing your session off of your booking form, we’ll communicate with you about your needs when you’re here. We prefer our play to be as organic as possible. The last thing we want to do is base our play on a booking form that you filled out a few weeks before you came to us. When you arrive, we’ll initially give hugs and do introductions. We’ll welcome you into the Nursery and do a little Show & Tell. We LOOOOOVE seeing what our little ones have brought. One of the best parts about being a Mommy is getting to see the cute onesies, pacis and stuffies that our babies bring!!! That being said, you don’t have to bring anything when you visit. We have outfits, pacis, a zillion stuffies, and diapers, so all you’ll need is to bring your cute little self!!! We know that most of our littles are driving from great distances, so we make sure to check to see if you need a change right away. We expect for there to be some wetness, so don’t worry! We’ll also make sure that you’re well-hydrated because we are, after all, in the desert. It’s important that all wee ones remain comfortable throughout their stay with us, so BE SURE to let us know if you need anything right away (food, drink, candy…). Please remember, we are here for you!!! During your time with us, YOU ARE OUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY!!! Once you enter our doors, you are free to be who you want!! Ours is a non-judgemental safe space. We’ve seen it all and WE TRULY LOVE IT ALL!! :D We have all kinds of activities and fun things to do here, so speak up if you see anything you like or want to try. Never be afraid to ask! Here’s a list of ideas for activities, but if you’d like to do something not listed, please let one of the Mommies know! If you have more questions, please feel free to contact us. :)

Do you change poopie diapers?

Yes, we do! Since we truly want you to be able to regress, we do offer that service. Keep in mind, though, that we charge a $50 "solid waste" fee for each diaper change that includes feces. We also reserve the right to NOT engage in diaper changes, in cases of... explosions (if you catch our drift).

Can the "Mommies" play as other types of Caregivers?

Absolutely! If you'd rather identify us as nannies, babysitters, or other type of caregiver, let us know! We just have naturally fallen into the title of Mommy because they tend to be the most nurturing of caregivers. :)