Little Baby Boo Nursery Rules of Engagement
There are NO do-overs for overstepping hard boundaries.
You will be banned from the house and from further communication.
No inappropriate touching!
Cuddles are okay, but grabbing or groping your mommy will end your playdate and bar you from playing with us in the future.
No sexual interaction.
While there may be physical interaction during the playdate, for instance during bath time or diaper changes, the Mommies aren't touching with the specific intent to arouse or gratify sexually. Please don't ask that they do, either.
We know that you're going to be a little nervous, coming in to play, but please don't imbibe in illicit drugs or visit while intoxicated. It's just rude. And smoking is smelly. We've got too many precious stuffies who don't need black lung.
Arrive at your playdate on time.
Do not arrive too early or too late. Too early and we will turn you away. Too late (over 15 min) and you forfeit both your deposit and the rest of your session time. If you message us en route to let us know that you're running late we may be able to make an exception.
We understand that sometimes emergencies occur. Should you need to postpone your session, please contact us at least 72 hours before your playtime. We can forward your deposit towards another session in the future. Should this happen a second time, we will see it as a forfeiture of your deposit and you will be unable to book with us for at least 6 months.
If you do not call or show up for an appointment, you will forfeit your deposit and be banned from playing with us in the future. Our time is valuable, please respect it.
Cleanliness is next to Momminess.
For the love of all things good and holy, take a shower the day you're coming to see us. Soiled nappies are one thing, stinky pits and breath are another, entirely different and unnecessary thing. Wear deodorant and brush your teeth, chew gum, or have a breath mint before you come in. Please don't make the Mommies try to suffer through your dirty clothes, either. Because we won't.
The cleaner you smell, the more we'll want to cuddle. :)
Be open and communicative with us.
We take great care in our roles so as not to emotionally scar any person engaging in play with us. While playdates can be intimidating and may push consensual boundaries, all acts committed by the Mommies come from a place of love. If we do or say anything that you don't like, please, please, please talk to us and tell us how you're feeling.
If you have any questions, feel free to contact the Mommies outside of the sessions or utilize your safe word while inside of the Little Baby Boo Nursery world.
Frequently asked questions
I wear diapers, is that okay?
Yes! We fully expect for our littles and adult babies to come in diapers (they're the cutest!). In fact, all play experiences have diaper changes included.
What does the diaper change entail? Is it mandatory?
While diaper changes are included, it definitely is not mandatory. Please let us know your preference on your booking form.
What is the difference between a "little" and an "adult baby?"
Here are a resources that explain these dynamics a lot better than we ever could:
reddit ABDL FAQ Section
The Different Types of Littles for Caregiver/little Dynamics
I’m A Queer Little: 10 Things You Should Know
Is it okay to play as a different gender?
Absolutely! That's one of the things you can let us know on the booking form. We're open to all sexes, gender, non-gender, whatever types. We're all about love and acceptance. :)
I'm gay, will that make a difference in our play?
Absolutely not. Little Baby Boo Nursery is all about love and not about sexuality. Everyone, regardless of sexual proclivities, needs and deserves to be loved, hugged, and cared for.
Would you be willing to trade or barter for service?
No, we do not accept trades or barters for service.
Will my charge card bill say "Little Baby Boo Nursery?"
No. Your donations will be billed under a different, non-descript company name. We'll let you know what that is in person. We don't want to list it here for privacy reasons.
What forms of payment do you accept?
What is "Pay to Play?" Can't you just be my Mommy?
"Pay to play" is often a derogatory term used to describe professionals who accept donations, tributes, or payments for their services. It's unfortunate that there's such a stigma attached to being a "professional" service provider.
I'm worried about sexuality & discipline. Can you tell me more about it?
The littlespace is a SAFE space and free of sexual inference or innuendo. Unless otherwise requested (and confirmed beforehand), only mild forms of discipline will be used. We believe in positive, supportive reinforcement.
Can I request something a little more... "intimate"?
It really depends on what it is. We are not prostitutes nor are we interested in accepting money in exchange for anything sexual. We want to make this very clear: there will be no touching of the genitals, buttocks, or female breasts with the specific intent to arouse or gratify someone sexually.
What happens if I get “excited?"
I've always wanted to try this, but I'm afraid. Can I talk to someone about it?
We absolutely welcome first timers and will be as gentle as a kitten with you. The Nursery is a SAFE SPACE, where people can be free to be themselves. We Mommies have the utmost compassion and respect for all people. We always come from a place of love and are willing to talk through any emotions that come up during one of our sessions.
Why do you do this?
We recognize that the AB/DL/little lifestyles are often misunderstood and that there is a need for loving and compassionate caregivers who aren't afraid to get their hands dirty. Please see the About Us section for more information.
Do you have plans to travel?
Yes! We're always traveling. Make sure to keep an eye on our Blog and subscribe to our Instagram account!
Where is the Nursery?
We are located in the High Desert of Los Angeles County, in Palmdale, CA. Check out the map for directions from your home.
Are you discreet?
We will be collecting private information from you throughout the process and we take that responsibility very seriously. Your privacy and safety are our top concerns.
Is it okay if I'm law enforcement or military?
Of course! We gladly welcome our "boys in blue" and either former or active-duty military! In fact, we offer a 10% discount as an expression of gratitude.
Do you accept donations of used adult baby gear?
YEEEEEEES!!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! We will gladly accept gently used onesies or clothing of any size.
What is the booking process like?
Hi little love! What should you expect during a Little Baby Boo Nursery play date? Expect to be loved and doted on!
Once you've decided that you'd like to visit the Little Baby Boo Nursery, contact us, introduce yourself, and tell us a little about your ideal play date.
You'll be asked to fill out the Little Baby Boo Nursery booking form (which will help us learn even more about you and when you'd like to schedule).
Initiate your deposit via the DONATE/PAY HERE button to reserve your spot. Until your deposit is made, we cannot guarantee a date or time.
Once we receive your deposit, we will send a confirmation email with a welcome and introductions to your Caregiver(s). Please feel free to ask any and all questions. We are here for you and don't mind answering anything.
Immediately before your session, we'll check your picture ID for age, go over the rules, review your completed form, and confirm final payment.
During our playdate we'll have THE BEST TIME EVER! Yaaay!
Can I bring a friend?
You are more than welcome to bring an additional ABDL participant. Keep in mind that our prices are per person.
Is it okay if I bring something to drink or smoke to relax?
How long of a session should I book?
Of course, that depends on what you'd like to experience. We typically recommend scheduling a playdate session for at least 2 hours. That amount of time gives us all a chance to really get into the headspace of the dynamic while also giving us ample time to bring you out of littlespace.
What happens during a session?
Do you change poopie diapers?
Yes, we do!
Can the "Mommies" play as other types of Caregivers?
Absolutely! If you'd rather identify us as nannies, babysitters, or other type of caregiver, let us know! We just have naturally fallen into the title of Mommy because they tend to be the most nurturing of caregivers. :)