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Individuals Guide

This page is meant for individuals who are trying to learn more about their AB/DL desires. Whether you've been a member of the community for years or this is completely new to you, there are resources here to help!

Topic Selection

How and Where to Start

Relevant sections include:

  • What to do

  • Little/middle space ideas

  • Where to buy gear


Relevant sections include:

  • How to tell your partner

  • How to find an accepting partner

Common Feelings and Self-acceptance

Relevant sections include:

  • The binge/purge cycle

  • Dealing with feelings of guilt and shame

  • Places to find help and support

How and Where to Start

What to Do:



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