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Learn how to make a Baby Love Bug in this Mommy's Makerspace craft with Mommy Black. Love is in the air, behbehs... and so are love bugs!! Watch along as Mommy Black attempts to make hers glow in the dark. Will it work? Why does it only have 4 legs? Why shouldn't you use old craft glue? The answers to these questions and more, inside this video! Making small ABDL crafts is a great way to be able to have inconspicuous anchors around the house. "Anchors" are physical reminders that can help you cope in tough situations. When you're having a difficult day, just looking at this little bug might help to remember a happier time and improve your mood. Life is good in littlespace! At the end, get a sneak peak at video from the upcoming ABDL Space Camp!!Space Camp starts on March 9th (hopefully) and is FREE & virtual!!! Have fun crafting!!

This months ABDL Storytime story, Mommy Black reads, "There's a Bear on My Chair" by Ross Collins. A Bear has settled in Mouse's favorite chair--and that chair just isn't big enough for two. He tries all kinds of tactics to move the pesky Bear. Will anything work? What will happen next? Join us for ABDL Storytime, part of our YouTube Membership. Each month, we read a fun story to all of our adorable littles. Your $5 contribution helps support what we do, while allowing us to give a little something in return. Have a great day, behbehs!! xoxo, Mommy Black

Ultimate ABDL Convention Guide: Tips & Tricks for the Event Mommy Black is back to share some tips and tricks with you on making the most out of your ABDL convention experience. This video is part two of a three-part series on ABDL Conventions. Whether you're a seasoned attendee or a first-timer, these insights will help you navigate the bustling world of ABDL conventions. First Impressions Matter: Dressing the Part As we step into the world of conventions, let's remember that outside the hotel, it's crucial to respect the space and community. Stick to vanilla street clothes—no ABDL gear until you're inside the convention. It's a simple act of consideration for others and sets a positive tone for the event. Overcoming Social Anxiety: Take Baby Steps It's normal to feel a bit overwhelmed at first. Social anxiety is common, even for outgoing individuals. Remember to take deep breaths, smile, and take it one... baby step... at a time. Be present in the moment and appreciate the unique opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals. Express Gratitude: The Heart of the Convention ABDL conventions thrive on the dedication of volunteers. Take a moment to express gratitude to the organizers and anyone contributing their time. A simple "thank you" goes a long way, and it's a reminder of the incredible community spirit that makes these events possible. Embrace Learning: Attend Classes and Activities Don't miss out on the exclusive classes offered at conventions. These are golden opportunities for personal growth and education. Show your appreciation to the organizers and network with fellow attendees. Remember, networking is about building connections within the community, not just for business purposes. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Try New Activities ABDL conventions offer a myriad of activities beyond classes—games, playrooms, and more. Take the chance to try something new, even if it's just one activity per day. It's an excellent opportunity to explore and expand your horizons. Connect with Others: Building Friendships Friendship is a cornerstone of the ABDL community. Reach out to others, especially those who may seem a bit shy or new. If you're attending with friends, consider the perspective of someone attending alone. Inclusivity and friendliness make the community stronger. Respect Boundaries: The Importance of Consent Consent is paramount in the ABDL community, especially considering the prevalence of anxiety. Pay attention to buttons worn on clothing or lanyards indicating comfort levels, and always ask for permission before physical contact. Respecting personal boundaries creates a safer and more enjoyable environment for everyone. Support During Difficult Times: Handling Panic Attacks With the potential for sensory overload, panic attacks can happen. If you encounter someone experiencing this, gently guide them to a quieter space. Be calm, encourage deep breaths, and assure them they are safe. Remember, the community is there for support. Self-Care: Stay Hydrated and Rested In the excitement of the convention, don't forget to take care of yourself. Stay hydrated, eat regularly, and get enough rest. It's essential for sustaining your energy levels and ensuring a positive experience throughout the event. Stay Mindful of Health Measures: COVID Safety While we embrace the joy of conventions, it's crucial to remain mindful of health measures, especially in the context of ongoing concerns like COVID. Practice good hygiene, sanitize, and maintain a safe distance when necessary. In closing, ABDL conventions are incredible opportunities to connect, learn, and have fun. By keeping these tips in mind, you'll not only make the most of your experience but also contribute to creating a welcoming and inclusive community for everyone. See you at the convention, and let's make it a magical time together! xoxo, Mommy Black

Welcome to Mommy's Makerspace, a special place for ABDL crafting in littlespace! Today Mommy Black is going to walk us through how to create Countdown Chains – a perfect way to countdown to exciting events like a convention or going to Disneyland! Since we're heading to CAPCon, Mommy is making a countdown chain for the event. She even uses stickers that she got at CAPCon 2023 in the craft! What do you think? What event will you be counting down to? xoxo!

So, you wanna know more about Storytime, eh? Well, you've come to the right place. We're trying a little something out on YouTube called memberships. For $5 a month, you'll get an exclusive story read to you by Ms Mommy Black. You'll also have the opportunity to help pick the following month's video. Mommy Black is also seeing what other features YouTube has to offer, so you may actually see her on our Community board interacting with littles! In addition, some of our archived story reads will be available for Storytime members, as well. Depending on how this experiment goes, we may offer more in the future! As always, thank you for your support, behbehs!!! xoxo!

Mommy Black has just released a new video about what's going on with Little Baby Boo Nursery!! What's up, behbehs? Mommy Black is here to fill you in on the latest from Little Baby Boo Nursery. She does so from the comfort of her gigantic adult-sized crib. The past year has been a tough one. Wait, who are we kidding? The past few years have been rough. But, Mommy Black has returned to check in with her little baby boos. Onwards and upwards we go!! Due to some issues with her autoimmune disorders, Mommy Black hasn't been able to reach out to littles who have been contacting her for in-person ABDL sessions. Little Baby Boo Nursery has been on hiatus due to lack of energy and COVID. That being said, Mommy Black plans to begin doing virtual ABDL sessions very soon. The hope is that it'll be between Christmas and New Year. AND, with any luck she'll be offering a few in-person ABDL sessions in the new year. It all depends on her health. Subscribe to the LBBN newsletter to stay updated on the plans. Mommy Black goes on to, once again, admit that she is TERRIBLE at social media. Because of that, she's going to halt the rest of LBBN's social media and just focus on YouTube. She's discovered the YouTube Membership program. It's similar to the Patreon that LBBN once had, so she's decided to try it. Introducing the Storytime Membership! It's the starter tier to test the waters. If you join, each month you'll have access to a fun little story that Mommy Black will read to you. What's more, you'll have the opportunity to vote on what she should read for the following month!! Mommy Black is super excited about the opportunity to once again connect with her littles. She feels it's a good match for her low energy levels of late. Over summer, LBBN was going to run their Littles' Summer Camp that they've been doing since the pandemic surfaced. Due to some unforeseen circumstances, Space Camp (this year's theme) had to be postponed. It's now projected to start in February. It's set for then to coincide with the end of CAPCon (the Chicago Age-Play Convention). That way it'll help attendees with con-drop or littles who weren't able to attend CAP. Mommy Black also recognizes that she owes ya'll some videos. Ha ha ha! She's working on that. ;D She just wants you to know that everything she does for the ABDL community is coming from a place of love. The new Storytime membership should start on December 24th. She plans to also release another video where she reads a Christmas book on Christmas Eve. She asks folks to join the new Membership option and make sure to subscribe because she plans to investigate some of the fun features that YouTube has, including the Community section. She's excited to learn more about that and to be able to engage with all of her littles. Check out our YouTube channel and join our new Membership today!

Sorry, little ones, we have to postpone ABDL Summer Camp for a bit. One of our furbehbehs is ill, so we have to start Space Camp in a couple of weeks. Summer Camp in Fall... we do what we want!! Stay tuned...

I’ve created a handy dandy Packing Checklist that can be downloaded here! I’ve included everything that our little group could think of that you might need: from paramount things like your ID and insurance cart to comfort items that you might want to bring to feel safe. Most of the items on the list are pretty standard, but in the video below, I go over a few key components that I think are super important: Bring enough cash in case your cards fail. Bring your cute outfits! This is the time to show off! 99.9% of folks there will be dressed in littles’ attire, so come prepared. Remember to bring LAYERS. While it’s freezing outside, inside will be nice and toasty. Pack room slippers or socks. Hotel floors are dirty! Pack enough diapering supplies. Consider pre-ordering diapers instead of bringing a bunch in case you are space constrained. If you’re flying, you may want to put your powder in your check-in luggage. I know that the TSA limits how much powder you can have in your carry-on bag. At the end of the video I give you some advice on flying while padded. Bring disposable changing pads (an economical choice are doggy pee pads). They’re easy to put down under your sheet as a mattress protector. They’re a hygienic way to protect yourself and others while being changed in the more public changing areas. Bring individual diaper disposal bags (doggy waste bags). COMFORT ITEMS Stuffie - may not want to bring your favorite Floor blanket - THE FLOOR IS LAVA Calming sachet Journal or drawing book - this will come in handy for Con Drop Small notepad and a pen This is for contact info of people you meet or any notes you need to take (or drawings you wanna make) A small backpack with water, snacks, and hand sanitizer They will be handing out big bags, but yours will look like everyone else’s Toiletries Deodorant Hand sanitizer Face masks COVID test kits Bring some snacks, but be sure to order stuff when you get there. A lot of folks will be putting pins on their lanyards. Be sure to bring some! If you can, bring stuff to share! A lot of folks, including us, will be bringing buttons, bracelets, stickers, and other trinkets to give away. It’s not mandatory, by any means, but if you can, bring stuff to share or trade. Leave extra room in your suitcase for your purchases. Hopefully this list helps to prepare you for your next convention. Be sure to subscribe to our YouTube channel, because Part 2 of the Convention series will be about How to Make the Most Out of an ABDL Convention! Yay! MORE STUFF TO BRING!! Some people have suggested items to add, so this is where I'll leave the updates. For folks who need a little assistance (or comfort) during travel, like me, don't forget: cane sciatica pillow neck pillow PewPewKev suggested: start taking immune booster supplements and keep taking them during any large event PewPewKev, DommyMommyK, incognitoesq suggested: Electrolyte mix-ins like liquid IV (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01IT9NLHW) or DripDrop (https://www.dripdrop.com/) -curious– suggested: Umbrella Dartplayerinwvc shared their list: Boxes - Scentsy Warmers for giveaways White duct tape - Lowes Tape Gun – clear tape Clear tape Utility Knife/blades Scissors Razor knife Magnifying glass Darts & tips Camera Batteries and CHARGER Phone Chargers phone batteries MiFi packet Power strips Coffee maker/filters/creamer Spare coffee pot? Coffee Tea bags hangers Memory cards Silverware Alarm clock Lawn chairs Coke / soda / water/ beer Bourbon - 5 flavors, 4 proofs Coffee cup Tumbler(s) with straw(s) Cooler(s) Ibuprofen / Tylenol / daily meds Laptop Laptop batteries / cords Gray shorts Denim shorts Tv tables (2) Vape mods Vape juices Vape batteries Vape tanks / coils / tips Windex / Windex wipes Grocery / garbage bags Bath wipes Chair/bed pads Incense / air freshener / scents - for giveaways over 400.00 worth Shower curtain Battery packs Diaper/pull ups bags Sticky notes Stapler Autograph markers / pens Spare eyeglasses Deodorants / cologne Jovan Musk hair brush Germany 6-tape diapers Changing One Diaper at a time - Whiskey decanter / glasses

So, I lost a bet with BoonBerries and now I have to wear an adult diaper. 😒 You might be thinking to yourself, "That's no big deal, I wear 'em all the time!" But the thing is, I'M A MOMMY!!! Tee hee hee. I was supposed to follow through on this in December, but I ended up catching COVID. So, we've postponed it till CAPCon. To make it extra super-duper fun, we're reaching out to all of you to help us pick which should be my first!! AND we're adding some incentive for those of you who love them all. We're donating $50 to the charity matched with the chosen design. Your options are: ABUniverse's DinoRawrZ - The Trevor Project Crinklz's Buccaneer - PADI Aware Foundation NappiesRUs's Little Rascals - The Planetary Society Tykables's Little Rawrs - Paws and Stripes These are the charities we typically donate to and we highly encourage matching donations or for folks just to check them out! Alright little ones, which is it gonna be?

Mommy Black will be offering limited virtual sessions from March 1-12th.

So, we've gathered the info and now it's time to pass it on to ya'll. Please see Part 1 for more information on how this fell in our laps. If you're looking for the meat of who these folks are (phone numbers/contact info), see this section. If you want to know why they'll be caught, see this section. We were approached last week by a person who had been swindled out of thousands of dollars by the group "ABDL Community for All." You might recognize their logo because they've been collecting followers on Instagram like gangbusters. Because he had seen images of our Bitmoji on the "ABDL Community" social media, he had thought that they were affiliated with us or that we supported them in some way. We are NOT affiliated with "ABDL Community for All!" We are bringing you this story because we've heard things like this happening before and we want to do our best to get this information out to the public so that 1) this doesn't happen to other people and 2) we can get these swindlers put behind bars!!! We are going to the FBI Cyber Crimes division to report it and we're looking for other victims of this group who want to volunteer other information. If you'd like to report a crime similar to this one, please visit the FBI Cyber Crimes website: https://www.ic3.gov/ The Story of Fred We go through the story of Fred in the above video, but here is a synopsis of what happened to him. "ABDL Community" Social Media So, Fred saw on their social media all kinds of wonderful images and stories attributed to what looked to be an ABDL community. They talked about their mission and advertised their website and mobile app. For all intents and purposes, they seemed legit. Their Mommies They had images of Mommies and provided screenshots of interactions with the Caregivers. Those of you who have been in the community for some time will no doubt recognize folks in this gallery. Their Nurseries There were lots of photos of "their nurseries." I didn't realize that CAPCon was a nursery, but... Warnings They even went so far as to warn people about scammers: The Website So Fred went to the website that they were advertising (https://shoutout.wix.com/so/7fO4j5gDt?languageTag=en) and decided to join their organization. After joining, he paid several fees to be able to match with a Caregiver and become a member of their various groups. Mommy Khima He was introduced to Mommy Khima and paid extra for a "Relationship Certification." Below is Khima's profile, the Certification, and some of their communication (the images of which are put into this gallery backwards, so scroll to the end if you want to look at them in order). A few red flags are highlighted; however, one of the overall issues is that they're not really engaging in deep conversation. "Khima" typically only has one or two lines of communication - most of which are "ok baby." Please note that Fred's first language isn't English. You may notice that there are a lot of references to money in their conversations. And towards the end, she brought up something about a hospital. She started to bait Fred into feeling sorry for her and triggered an interest in helping her. At this point, Fred was wary; however, he still saw signs that this organization was legitimate. Many of the "Mommies" have social media profiles and they were actively engaging on the website. They also freely give their phone number publicly so it makes it seem like they have nothing to hide. (707) 412-0217 Here's the thing... if you look up the number, it leads down the rabbit hole. Initially, you might notice that it's the thread between several Caregiver ads - which makes sense. But, you'll also see a trend in snapchat handles, emails, and similar names if you investigate further. Take a look at the following gallery. You'll see many of the same names used, with different profile photos using stolen images (or Bitmojis, in the case of the one stolen from Mommy Black). Common Threads When we were collecting information, we found that certain names kept popping up and many sites and profiles seem to be related. By the time this information is out in the world, hopefully many of these will have been closed. But this is what we found doing a cursory search. Snapchat: tinawells7555 Tinawest7555 Marywells202342 Tinawells223856 - Mommy Tina Emails: khimakutie@gmail.com kutiekhima6@gmail.com reginaodwyer33@gmail.com ellaaawest@gmail.com jadehouston55@gmail.com anitamommy2@gmail.com marwells121@gmail.com owenterrance94@gmail.com Related profiles: https://www.instagram.com/abdl_community_for_all/ https://www.facebook.com/Abdlcommunityforall https://mobile.twitter.com/abdlcommunity1 https://flutterwave.com/store/abdlcommunityforus/sp5hclfgd24k https://mommystephaniewantstoexplore.quora.com/ https://www.quora.com/profile/Mommyann https://www.quora.com/profile/Stephanie-Clara-7 https://twitter.com/KhimaKutie https://twitter.com/ann53307337 https://twitter.com/mommyapry https://www.instagram.com/empresscantrella/ https://www.tiktok.com/@mommyann38 https://www.instagram.com/tinawells562022 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087751290183 https://www.reddit.com/user/Strong-Competition94/ The Kidnapping By this time, Fred was invested in his "relationship" with Khima, he felt a bond with her (which can be quick and strong in the Cg/l dynamic). So when she told him that she wanted to get out of her contract with the ABDL Community group, he was supportive of her. Unfortunately, it was only after she'd done so that she suddenly realized that in her contract there was an early termination fee. She, of course, didn't have the money, but if he could give her a small loan, she'd gladly sign an affidavit to repay him. He also received a lovely letter from an attorney, laying out the case for him. Oh and also, they were keeping her against her will... The Shake-Down Inevitably, the "ABDL Community" folks started threatening to out Fred when he stopped sending money and when he actually asked for his money back. They sent him a "check" which, of course bounced. Unfortunately, it ended up causing issues with his account because of the fraudulent check. They also gained access to his bank account and withdrew money without his permission. Then they started harassing him and threatening that he'd be arrested, his life would be ruined, etc. All the way to the F.B.I. Now, here's the thing. Vultures like these folks get away with crap like this because people are too afraid to report it. Luckily, because Fred contacted us, he's got some pretty ballsy people on his side. He did nothing wrong and he was taken advantage of. Because there are so many fallacies about the ABDL community (even coming from within it), people are afraid to contact law enforcement. Which is terrible because most law enforcement really do want to help people. Thankfully, Fred has the strength to fight and he's given us permission to share his story and to contact the FBI with his information. Which we absolutely are. In the meantime, we wanted to reach out to the community to see if there are other stories involving "ABDL Community for All" so that we can include that information in our submission. We don't need any of your information except a name and number/email where an agent can reach you. Remember, you are not the one at fault here! The folks behind this scam are the bad guys!!! Do not feel ashamed because you wanted to feel loved!! They will be found It should be worth mentioning that these folks definitely will be found. Why? For a couple of reasons: 1) In order to accept payments via Wix, you have to include your real information. That's easily accessible by law enforcement. 2) We have their PayPal accounts. And, as you may know, PayPal gets all up in your beeswax when you open an account with them. We may or may not have conducted a tiny sting operation to get this information. Heh heh heh. I told Fred to tell "Khima" that his "cousin" was willing to lend him the shakedown money. Khima gave Fred the PayPal email josepnjr12@gmail.com. Fred then told her that his cousin found that email to be fishy, so they ended up giving us another one: Hilwambunya@gmail.com. Tee hee hee. We're including all of the information we've gleaned here so that we can take a peek behind the curtain and get these jerks sent to jail. I'll be sending a link to this article to law enforcement. Why do we fall for scams? Hindsight, of course, is 20/20 and a lot of people might look at this scam and think how in the hell could he fall for something like that? It happens more often than you think. There are over 7000 people following ABDL Community for All on their Instagram and 580 profiles on their website. Sunk Cost Fallacy is the psychological term for when we follow through on something because we've already invested time, effort, or money into it. We'll do so even if the continuing costs outweigh the benefits! (see The Decision Lab article) The important thing is that we learn from our mistakes. Due Diligence Due diligence basically means DO YOUR HOMEWORK. The point in saying this isn't to cast blame on the victim - because each and every one of us has been the victim of fraud. We've all been there. However, it's especially important in our community to do your due diligence. When littles are looking for Bigs, sometimes they don't do so in Bigspace and that needs to happen!!! We sometimes get so excited about the possibility of finding someone to love, that we throw caution to the wind. This is not the time to leave your Big side out of the picture. Investigate! When you're looking to engage with professional Mommies, do they seem too good to be true? If you do internet searches for their information, does it lead to nefarious places? Look for and pay attention to red flags!! Where do we go from here? We have to find the strength to be like Fred and talk about crimes like this that happen in our community. No one deserves this kind of victimization. If you or someone you know is in crisis, call 988. In our next video, we'll be talking about recognizing the signs of a scammer. And soon, we'll be launching our Caregiver Directory, which is sort of like a Yelp for Caregivers (yay!). Folks will be able to leave reviews and feedback. Access to the directory will be FREE. In the meantime, stay safe, little ones!! xoxo!

Have you seen this logo? This is a new and insidious group of predators that are plaguing our community. THEY ARE SCAMMERS OF THE WORST KIND. They've created a website at https://shoutout.wix.com/so/7fO4j5gDt?languageTag=en where they are collecting information under the guise of being an ABDL community organization. They are smart in that they use targeted marketing that is similar to the marketing that reputable websites use. For instance - references to pride, looking out for scammers, etc. This is the front page of their website -> They are so sophisticated as scammers that they also have an app through Wix: https://apps.wix.com/place-invites/invite-lp/019b799b-3ae1-47d9-af02-7babf2b3ef4a?ref=cl. They have over 7,000 followers on Instagram!! And have photos from sources that are not their own - including images of us. They even have posts about watching out for scammers!! This post is diabolical (this is taken directly from their post - notice the misspellings and terrible grammar): "Greetings to you all out there, We the "Community Board" has been queried about Caregivers / Mommy on here and on the internet, thats been using our Website to extort money from people for our payments services... While they're not members/ Caregiver/ Mommy's of our Organization. So please whenever you come across these nuisances that keep committing to cause this blunder please try to report them Immediately or block them... Try to Get Informations from right sources meanwhile still make your background check so we'll handle this Miscreant's trying to take away the Joy of our Adult little ones and deceiving them or Take away the happiness of being in this lifestyle... in other words DO NOT PAY ANY MOMMY'S OR CAREGIVERS at least without showing you a community BADGE." Pardon my language, but WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? They lure you into a false sense of security, collect your information, warn you about "miscreants," only to end up being the actual scammers. There's a special place in hell reserved for these people. Seriously. The reason that we KNOW that "ABDL Community for All" are scammers is because we were approached by someone who was scammed by them. This person thought that a Mommy by the name of Jade Houston was affiliated with us (she's using my [Mommy Black] Bitmoji as her profile photo on Twitter). This person had given money to join the community and then they were conned into giving more money to go towards a legal defense, etc. I'm collecting more information from them so that I can disperse it to ya'll, but I wanted to get this info out ASAP. I'm also going to do a video about this "organization" as well. Stay away from @mommy_jade7, @mommy_ginaann, @abdl_community_for_all (it looks like they're original @abdl_community was taken down). More information coming... -MMB