Consent at ABDL Meetups & Conventions

Hello my sweet behbehs!!

In this new trilogy about ABDL conventions (and meetups), we're talking about consent. Originally, this was going to be one, biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig video, but given our attention spans (and spicy content), I’ve decided to break it up into three parts.

Part 1 - Consent at ABDL Meetups & Conventions: FRIES, Myths & Power Dynamics

Part 1 is where I cover the fundamentals of consent (using the F.R.I.E.S. acronym), 7 common myths about consent at ABDL conventions and meetups, how to navigate consent in different spaces, and power dynamics in the ABDL community (and how that can complicate consent).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDa_KneI4FU

Consent at ABDL Meetups & Conventions - Part 1: FRIES, Myths & Power Dynamics

Part 2 - Consent at ABDL Meetups & Conventions: Good Consent, Agency & Responsibility

Part 2 explore what GOOD consent looks like in action and how organizers can implement clear policies.

(video coming soon)

Part 3 - Consent at ABDL Meetups & Conventions: Dark Ageplay

And Part 3 discusses consent in dark ageplay environments. 😈

(video coming soon)

These videos are not about behaviors that are obvious assault! We go over gray areas, where folks cross boundaries and cause discomfort without even knowing that they’re doing it. This video isn’t about blame, it’s about learning and changing our behaviors so that we can become better humans.

Listen, a lot of us are a wee neurodiverse and have problems with context clues (which is fiiiine). So, it’s important that we keep an open dialogue. How else are folks gonna learn if we don’t talk about it? I’ve been to A LOT of meetups and conventions and I’ve got a lot of examples and stories for you, my adorable little ones.

Thank you so much for your support, my little lovies. I hope you find this info valuable. Please share it with folks you think could learn from it.

Sending love and besitos,

MMB